So You Want To Be A First Lady

From the start, Barnhardt’s writing draws you in with its authentic portrayal of Carol’s life. I felt an immediate connection to Carol as she navigates the tumultuous waters of being the wife of a pastor. The dichotomy between public perception and private reality is a theme that resonated deeply with me. It reminded me of how often we project a perfect image while struggling behind closed doors, something many can relate to regardless of their circumstances.
The book acts as a cautionary tale, stressing the responsibilities and weaknesses that come with playing a position like this. The darker sides of this existence, such as verbal and emotional abuse, the pernicious effects of celebrity, and the unseen pain many First Ladies go through, are not avoided by Barnhardt. This kind of candor is welcome in a genre that tends to downplay the more unpleasant realities. It made me consider the value of community and support as well as the challenges that many women, particularly those in the public glare, endure.
The pacing of the book kept me engaged, as the plot twists and revelations unfold. I found myself rooting for Carol, hoping she would find the strength to reclaim her identity and navigate her tumultuous relationship with Leroy. Barnhardt masterfully captures the tension between loyalty and self-preservation, which often leaves women caught in a web of conflicting emotions.
I would recommend this book to anyone interested in a heartfelt story that blends mystery and thriller elements with profound insights into faith and resilience. It’s a book that will stay with you long after you turn the last page, prompting reflection on the roles we play in our own lives and the strength we can find within ourselves.

– John Carl Abines

Whew!!! This book is Awesome!! I planned on reading a little bit each day. But when I opened the book up and began to read, I found I simply could not put it down! It sucked me in from the very beginning and I couldn’t wait to see what would happen next. There were so many twists and turns, highs and lows, surprises and shocking moments that I felt like I had just gotten off a roller coaster! Tish did a beautiful job of writing this book and taking us behind the scenes of a First Lady. Her story is so touching, inspiring, empowering, and full of wisdom! It will bless anyone who reads it! Buy it and be blessed!

– Doris LaVonne

– Pastor Anita Massey